A Big Decision

There are three primary models for serving young teen moms and their children that we have considered. Maternity Homes, Self-Sufficiency Homes, and Transitional Living Centers. We did careful assessment of each ministry opportunity. Each has it's own set of challenges, and requirements. We factored in our desire to provide Christian nurture to the ones we serve, as well as specific topics and curriculum that seems vital in equipping the young women to reach their potential.

Maternity Homes generally provide a secure and supervised environment for pregnant women in need of living assistance. They are assisted in developing a birthing plan. The philosophy of those I have interviewed seemed most likely to encourage adoption for teens mom. The expected stay is through the length of gestation, with some offering after-care services.

I was thrilled to attend the National Christian Housing Conference in Cary, NC in August. There were around 40 people in attendance, representing 13 states and probably 10 Maternity Homes. I was only one from Ohio. There were executive directors, house parents, program directors, and administrative staff. It was a very welcoming group. If they grew weary of my questions, no one let on. I learned a great deal about the joys and challenges of ministry to pregnant teens.

The Self-sufficiency Home model was less known to our team. In this model the focus is on teen moms who are committed to parenting. 'Self-sufficiency' residential programs serve teen moms and their children. The specific model that caught our attention is Hope House of Colorado. At Hope House the program offers a 5-phase self-sufficiency program which is generally completed within two years. Education is a priority; along with life skill development and parenting.

The Glenn at St. Joseph in Dayton, OH is an awesome example of a Transitional Living Residence. In this model which serves older moms (18 years and older) the goals and objectives are similar. Education and life skill enhancement are offered in the context of Christian nurture. The women served have completed high school or have their GED.

I am encouraged to find incredible ministry occurring through each model in the centers that I have communicated with and/or visited.

On August 26, 2008 our Foundation Building Team came together to decide on the model that most closely aligns with our vision, resources, and skill sets. We came with some differing preferences and expectations. It was a precious experience to come together in prayer and then make a unanimous decision to move forward with establishing a self-sufficiency home for teen moms and their children. At this writing I am looking forward to my upcoming visit to Hope House of Colorado on Oct. 31. The leadership at Hope House of Colorado has been a source of encouragement in our early days of development; we are looking forward to a long and mutually beneficial relationship!