Being right...

Ever since the arrest of the church group from Idaho, caught taking children illegally from Haiti, the question of doing what’s ‘right’ has been discussed through a vast array of perceptions. Even if I assume, and I do, ( simply because I want to) that the zealous Americans thought they were ‘saving’ the children, doing the ‘right’ thing by providing a better life for them,they were still dead wrong! This does not appear to be Civil Disobedience for a higher cause, but failure to respect and adhere to law and practice, in place to protect the rights of children. That kind of ill-equipped fervor almost always ends badly. Their folly makes it more difficult for others to make a positive impact.

As the founder and exec. director of CHLOE, Inc/Chloe’s Place the responsibility to act wisely, within the boundaries of law and best practice, weighs heavy on me. It has pushed me to spend hours scrolling through legal mandates and wade through research that I must stretch to understand. I have read books on topics I had never considered before this work began. My quest continues; one new insight spurs me on to investigate another… and so it goes.

I am always surprised and a bit perplexed when I hear of new not- for- profits launching programs, soliciting support, and celebrating success while the ink is still wet on their business plan. “Do they have a business plan,” I wonder? It is not that I don’t wish them success, I just wonder how they do it! I hope their haste does not precipitate new laws that make serving vulnerable people even harder than it is now! Or... discourage generous people from supporting other worthwhile efforts.

In all things there is need for balance. My folly may be that ‘doing it right’ gets in the way of ‘doing it’. I hope not. Each brick we have laid in the foundation of our organization is intended to make it strong and sustainable for the long haul… long after I have a say in the matter!

Next month, we will start our GED pilot project. To the best of my knowledge and ability we have a good foundation laid for a successful outcome. If not, I am pretty sure someone will bring it to my attention!

Introducing Erin!

I am delighted to introduce you to our Chloe's Place... Program Director!

Erin Whinnery has spent her life as an observer of people, patterns and possibilities. Her strengths lie in research and development and problem solving; specifically through the application of principles. Her passion is truth. Her vision is to encourage individuals to embrace the pain necessary to fulfill their destinies. She engages the world with intentionality, convinced that every human being has the making of greatness.

Erin believes that success comes when one embraces the reality of rights through personal responsibility. She understands that relationships are the conduit for achievement. And while remaining single-focused, she continually strives to never be narrow-minded.

“I chose Chloe’s Place for my efforts because of a desire to give out of what I’ve received. I was raised with a strong, solid and blessed foundation. I believe one should build off of such a foundation, not just admire it.

“Chloe’s Place is committed to equipping and releasing young moms so they in turn can equip and release their children. Isn’t that beautiful?

“Chloe’s Place isn’t another welfare system. It’s an equipping station; providing women with the resources they need to break free of the bondage of poverty in all its facets—physical, social, emotional and spiritual.

“Chloe’s Place provides me with an opportunity to put my beliefs in action and contribute to the prosperity of future generations. I know of no greater calling after the equipping of my own children.”

Just You...Right?

I have been thinking of a comment a colleague made, a few years back. She said, " I hear you talk a lot about CHLOE, but it is really 'just you' right?" I've wondered over time just how many people share that opinion. There are actually quite a few people who have made integral investments in leadership, service and expertise to get us to this apex. I did a tally in my head and thought of 40 in a quick count. Some have been on board from the start. Some signed on for a single project or service. One group joined us specifically to learn from us, then launched their own project. Some have tested the waters then jumped ship without warning; leaving me in a quandary. Every non-profit program director I've met with shares the anguish of the wax and wane of volunteer rosters. I am learning that i simply can't take it personally when people abandon the cause...but it is difficult.

We are starting the New Year with a great group of committed volunteers! During 2010 I expect to see a multi-fold increase in people who join forces to help break the cycle of poverty for young single moms and their children. Our friends at Hope House of Colorado keep 250 volunteers busy... another great example of their excellent leadership!

So how many people do we need to make our GED pilot project successful? We need 5- motivated students, 2-facilitators, 5-mentors, child care providers, transporters, and lunch preparers/servers. Potentially we will offer 36 class sessions for 5 young women (including child care, transportation, and lunch). While this pilot project is our current focus we continue to need volunteers to help with other aspects of business, promotion, and technology.

At this point in our journey we are not adequately funded to pay even our professional staff, but that day will come! I am exceedingly grateful for those who are willing to get on board at this juncture.

Merry Christmas!

My all time favorite Christmas song...

Mary did you know that your baby boy would one day walk on water?
Mary did you know that your baby boy would save our sons and daughters?
Did you know that your baby boy has come to make you new?
This child that you delivered will soon deliver you.

Mary did you know that your baby would give sight to a blind man?
Mary did you know that your baby boy would calm a storm with his hand?

Did you know that your baby boy has walked where angels trod?
And when you kiss your little baby, you have kissed the face of God.

Oh, Mary did you know....
Mark Lowery

Sometimes

Sometimes I get really perplexed...

• When circumstances disappoint.
• With red tape, complex laws, and legal codes
• When I read that there are 8x more animal shelters in our community than for human victims of abuse.
• When my heart knows for sure...but words fail me
• That good work must have substantial funds to operate

Sometimes I am simply overjoyed...

• When I meet someone whose heart is bent and priorities set toward justice and service
  
• When my young teen granddaughter expresses interest in Chloe's Place.
• When we receive thoughtful notes or gifts toward the work.
• When someone joins in our work.
• When I envision Chloe's Place... fully operational
  

Sometimes I get really sad...

• When people do not value our work
• When I allow impatience to raise doubt
• When I focus on how quickly time passes, how much work is yet ahead, and aging.

Sometimes I get really angry...

• When seeing another demeaned or threatened
• At dishonesty... abuse... and hypocrisy
  
• When reading an account of yet another woman whose report of abuse was ignored.
• In competing for limited grant funds; knowing how the funds are actually used by some 'esteemed' organizations.

Sometimes I get really hopeful...

• When I learn of new technology that will help to communicate our needs and services.
• When I ponder inspired writings
• When I learn of other services for vulnerable, fragile moms and children
• When I recall those who have promised to pray for Chloe's Place everyday.
• When I remember that Chloe's Place is not mine alone
  

Thanksgiving

Thank You, Thank You, Generous God!
Thank You, thank You, thank You, generous God!
You have injected life with joy, thus we know laughter.
You have dabbed creation with color, thus we enjoy beauty.
You have whistled a divine tune into the rhythm of life, thus we hear music.
You have filled our minds with questions, thus we appreciate mystery.
You have entered our hearts with compassion, thus we experience faith.
Thank You, God, Thank You. Thank You! -
C. Welton Gaddy

Just Do It!

There are two predominant encouragements clinging to the nooks and crannies of my mind these days. The first, a reflection from leaders of Hope House of Colorado; their recent newsletter stated, "Our guiding question this year has been, What are you doing with what God has already given you". The second was spoken regarding the ministry of Chloe's Place. "Just do it", was the message I received from a ministry leader I admire.

I have spent the past 16 months pouring my heart and resources into establishing a ministry that will serve young single moms and their children; equipping fragile families with what they need to grow strong and independent. The time invested has allowed the development of an abundance of documents including forms, program components, and training materials. We have also broadened our support base. While great progress has been made, it seemed like little could be done until we had secured our house...then these two encouragements came...as unexpected gifts.

WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH WHAT GOD HAS ALREADY GIVEN YOU?
We have been given:
Passion for facilitating health and wholeness in young moms
Years of experience in a variety of leadership and caring roles
Equipment adequate to set up a small office and classroom
A modest bank account for ministry
Curriculum for some life skill courses
Ever growing number of friends of the ministry

JUST DO IT!...This is what we can do now:
The foundation is laid, strong and ready... keep building
The search is underway for just the right house...keep searching
Plans are underway to set up our Learning Center at a local church or community
building. (it can be moved into the house or to a nearby place in the future)

It seems within the realm of possibility to launch a pilot of our GED Learning Lab in early 2010. The initial idea is to invite 8-10 young single moms (as referred by community organizations) to enroll in our program. We are researching what we need in order to provide leadership, mentors, materials, transportation, lunch, and child care.

EXPECTED BENEFITS:
We will be able to collect experience and hone expertise in specific program
areas.
We may bolster confidence in those who are waiting in the wings to support our
work.
We will be able to gather needed 'measurable outcomes' necessary for grant
applications.
We will equip a number of young single moms toward a better future, some who
may not qualify for our future residential program.